that’s true. Maybe get that one anon reveal thing for tumblr? That way, anons that want to can still stay anon but people who are just switching to anon to be jerks can’t do it without you knowing who to block?
AWESOME idea, will definitely look into that the next time i’m back online :D
I’d miss you, but it’s understandable if you do :( Have you considered disabling anon?
awww, darlin’ heart, thank you, i’d miss you terribly too, and yes i have considered that before, but what makes me NOT disable anon is the thought that i don’t usually get such a huge percentage of hostile anons and not on a regular basis, most of the anons i get are the ones who send me headcanons or little inbox fics that i sometimes share with the rest of the fandom, and every now and again it’s a nice little message just to say they like my blog or they like the music on my blog or they think my tags are funny, and i try to remember that that’s more important to me personally than heatedly arguing with anons who are hostile right from the off. i enjoy mature, proper discussions, but not arguments, and if anons who think there’s something wrong or off with something i’ve said came at me to discuss instead of argue, not just over the past few days but from way back even (you know what i mean, you saw some of it before, hah) i probably wouldn’t even be entertaining the thought of deleting or taking a hiatus
did anyone realize that california laws went into effect today that allows trans* youth to pick which bathroom and sports team they feel comfortable with in school
i think that’s the bee’s knees
i’m such an asshole but i’m also a very kind-hearted person who likes making ppl happy and if i love u i will love u with all my heart and all my soul but then i’m also such an asshole
omg my dashboard and anons as of late have been, little by little, convincing me to follow in katy’s footsteps and either delete my tumblr or just stop using except for fics (and i haven’t been ficcing a lot either), particularly over the past 2 or 3 days and it’s really only the fun i find in being a fan with other fans who can relate that’s been keeping me blogging over the past two or so weeks w o w
coz lemme tell ya when we were younger, my best friend got so fed up with how much i loved movies that one time she said to my parents “does she talk about nothing but moulin rouge" this was back in 2001, we were 15 and i was being talked about like that behind my back by my best friend who i still love very much to this day but i mean do you see i’ve NEVER had someone really understand the love i have for movies and music and tv’s, everyone has always told me “it’s JUST a movie/show/song/band” as if it’s SUCH a small thing and yeah compared to a lot of things we go through as humans it’s SO small buT GEEZAS I’S NOT SMALL TO ME AND NO ONE HAS REALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT until i got online and now tumblr is making me want to quit tumblr cold turkey wTF IS EVEN GOING ON [sad sighs] so yeah, i’m super close to saying goodbye to tumblr and if you think i’m saying this just to get attention, you are one of the reasons i’m super close to saying goodbye to tumblr
eta: your replies are all so sweet, and for those sharing advice on dealing with the negative times, thank you so much, it’s great advice, some of which i’ve followed before, but hey if they worked before they’re sure to work again, you’re one of the big reasons i’m still here :D
(just because i didn’t do this post for the attention doesn’t mean i can’t acknowledge and accept it because after the negativity of the past few days it’s nice to get some positivity back in here <3 )
you can preach about slut-shaming all you want, but you can’t deny there’s something very wrong with 13 and 14-year old girls going out in skirts and dresses so short they barely cover their asses and shirts with necklines so low they show off cleave they haven’t got yet, drinking and even smoking and hooking up with guys before they even have a substantial knowledge of how sex and sexual relationships work.
Thank YOU HOLY SHIT
ah, but that doesn’t have anything to do with being a “slut” does it, and more with how said 13 or 14 year olds either don’t get enough guidance or get more than enough but they refuse to adhere to it because they found something their minds think is more fun than all these “don’t do this” and “don’t do that” statements they get from those who are trying to guide them to make better decisions?
weak unprepared people sleep naked. what are you gonna do when a robber comes in your house and see you naked? ?your material possessions can be replaced but your dignity cannot.
the robber will be so blown away by my massive DONG that he will have SO MUCH RESPECT for me and my MASSIVE PENIS that he will put all the stuff back and walk out. all because of my COLOSSAL MEMBER.
i thought that original post was gonna be a joke but it wasN’T????????